I reread your post, Alcyone, but couldn't figure out what you'd changed. It seemed the same but I must have forgotten something. (which wouldn't surprise me )

What I meant by my statement was that I really didn't think a third party could decide whether I would feel like I had been personally attacked or what Labrat's motivation was. No one could know either of those things with certainty. That's a bit blunter and I was trying to avoid that.

And thanks, Sue. It's good to know there's one thing I've said that someone besides Ann agrees with. smile

c.