If the medical condition that Lois has acquired as a result of Superman's freezing her is not his responsibility, why is that?
Sometimes people who have brain problems after trauma are not able to take repsonsibility for their actions - they need professional help to get to the stage where they are able to act. It would seem out of character to me for Clark Kent to give up on Lois Lane, especially when he was the cause of her trauma in the first place.
Now Ralph, for example, I can see off-loading that sort of responsibility.
btw, I too am not crazy about the 'predestined soul mates' idea, mostly because it dimishes the idea of free will. I do believe that one peson can be another's soulmate though. But predestined - nope.
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