Reading all your comments has made me come to a very sad realization. I think I've been fooling myself into thinking my relationship is functional and/or could ever work.
I'm so sorry to hear that Bizarro. I'm not very good in the advice department with this sort of thing but perhaps some counseling could help??
But you both have to want to work it out, otherwise counseling does nothing. My hubby and I did a lot of pre-marital counseling that have helped us in our marriage. It hasn't always been easy but I'm a firm believer in counseling and think it can help if both parties are willing to learn/change. Best of luck to you!!
