I'm almost certain this was from Becky Bain's "In a Dark Time" ... a story that tackles a very distasteful subject and does a magnificent job of it.

EDIT: Oops blush That's not it... I was so sure, too... but I've just been skimming through the story again -- well, okay, mostly the second half wink -- and it was worth it just for that. smile

PJ

"You told me you weren't like other men," she said, shaking her head at him when the storm of laughter had passed.
He grinned at her - a goofy, Clark Kent kind of a grin. "I have a gift for understatement."
"You can say that again," she told him.
"I have a...."
"Oh, shut up."

--Stardust, Caroline K