Just a suggestion - you need to make this a two-part poll so we can list the three categories we dislike most as well.
I didn't select "erotic" because of the description you gave. I love a dirty story as much as the next reader, but the whole "roleplay, public seduction, etc." made me leery (as did the implied exclusion of anything "tender" in an nfic). I (perhaps erroneously) understood your definition of "erotic" to mean only rough stuff or out-there scenarios. In stories like that an author has to tread extremely carefully (and be willing to toss characterization out the window). I've only read a handful of stories where the author can make it work.