I just heard how bad this had gotten over on another forum, and thought of y'all. Stay safe!

And Jen, I hope you are taking your mom's suggestion!


Do you know the most surprising thing about divorce? It doesn't actually kill you, like a bullet to the heart or a head-on car wreck. It should. When someone you've promised to cherish till death do you part says, "I never loved you," it should kill you instantly.

- Under the Tuscan Sun