Originally posted by Mrs. Luthor:
There is actually a way to turn yourself offline on the chat, so they can't even start a chat convo with you. If you need help figuring it out, I'll do a screen shot for you, but it's in the bottom right corner where your chat box pops up. Click on the settings or options (not sure what it's called off hand) and there should be an appear offline type thing.
Thank you for your offer, but it's ok, I've had my chat options like that for a while.
The worst part is that my best friend did the same and we do this sort of cat and mouse dance, never knowing when each other is really offline (and we do like to chat anyway we can!). Usually we send random messages to each other to see if there's a reply. We need to syncronize more
