Originally posted by Nan:
I'm sorry if my request prompts a snarky response, rivka.
Now wait just a minute.
I specifically said that the reason I had NOT posted was because I could not come up with anything that wasn't snarky. As I didn't think snarkiness was deserved, I didn't post. Please do not get annoyed at me for a response that I decided not to post!
In any case, my theoretical response would have been less to your initial post and more to some of the later suggestions.
I am sorry you are having such a difficult time right now. Both of my father's parents died of Alzheimer's; it is a horrible, horrible disease. Even more for the caregivers than the patient.