Can we move on to another topic now?
Respectfully, Pam (and Terry, too) no. (although, of course, you personally can move on - your choice)
and I really sincerely mean that.
But if it is valid to keep writing Lois deathfics (or any other genre like alternate beginnings or next gen or whatever), then it is surely valid to discus those themes.
If you intend to censor discussion of the deathfic theme then also censor deathfic.
for the record, I do not think either is the proper approach.
c.
Socrates: "an unexamined life is not worth living")
