Wow, this is a fantastic topic. I love reading everyone's replies, which I basically agree with, although I'm completely inexperienced with the whole "falling in love" thing. I can honestly say I haven't fallen in love yet, but I've watched friends and family, and have basically come up with the same ideas that I've read in this thread. I love the phrase "love is a verb"--I think it's so true! I also like that you grow into that kind of love--my mother had a cross-stich that hung in our house for as long as I can remember "Joy is being married to your best friend." And that is basically what I want--I want to be best friends with my husband.
