Continuing on the OT:
Btw, 21 is far too young for anybody of our generation to get married. I'm not getting married till I'm 30. In my culture, that's horribly old.
The older I get, the more boys I date. . . the more I'm starting to realize that you're absolutely right. You can't put a time limit on that sort of thing. It will happen when it happens--there's no need for us to get stuck in an awful marriage because we want to fit into the conventional way of things. We only live once, and I intend to make sure that when I marry it's the right guy and he's not robbing the robin's nest, if you follow me.
SmirkyRaven