Hi Nora,
We lost my stepfather to cancer in March. We had a good relationship but it never occurred to me just how much I had to thank him for until the end. You're fortunate to have a good relationship with your mom. Even so, the people in our lives should hear how much they mean to us--even if it had been said before.
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. There are a lot of people who have been there. I can't add much to Artemis's advice except to lean on your friends in times like these and I'll keep your family in my prayers.
David
