Okay, I know it was inevitable, but it's actually happened: my daughter has a boyfriend. (She's a junior in highschool; he's a sophomore who has been a friend for a couple of years).

So now it's time for Dad to make it clear that her parents expect her to be treated with respect. Man to boy, as it were. So, other than the country song about cleaning your gun wink , who's had that talk with a young man? Who's had it with a girlfriend's dad? What was said? Was it helpful? Would you do it differently? Let us learn from your mistakes or successes.


This *is* my happily ever after.