Oooh, support group. Sounds like you did the meetings wrong, tho. Group readings and discussions!!!
Very interesting stories! I just have to say, always be careful with real names on the net. I met a guy on the net once who said he could find my phone number without too much information, and he'd call me. This was back when Penn State had public student directories, silly them. He did find it, and he did call me that night. Granted, I did eventually marry him, so maybe that's not a bad thing....