Sheila, I know you've solved this problem and are posting on the mbs (and that the point of this poll is specifically about posting on the threads here), but just in case anyone has the same problem - don't forget you can send fdk to the authors/vidders personally by email.
That way, if you're only intending to offer fdk to those stories/videos/whatever you like or feel you don't have time to give fdk to everyone, no one will know who you mail to, so no one can feel left out.
LabRat
