I'm a latecomer to this story, but I have to admit that I've found myself waiting breathlessly for each new part. (Well, one new part, since I didn't start until part 39 was already out.)
I've enjoyed the depictions of how the trauma both Lois and Clark have affected both their psyches.
I'd expect them to both have nightmares, trouble connecting emotionally to other people. They'd both be jumpy. Trauma committed by other people is harder to deal with than trauma caused by nature.
Given Clark's abilities, it's difficult to do these sorts of stories, but you've pulled it off quite well. Keep up the good work...and soon.