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2) Give birth to a healthy little girl. (expect this one to be a relative cinch).
I very much hope you keep this one, but if you do, please do NOT take it for granted. Speaking as someone who had an extremely smooth pregnancy and who then gave birth to a child with multiple special needs, I know that having a healthy child is by no means a given.

I'm not saying this to scare you; statistically speaking, your child will probably be healthy. I'm just saying it in the hopes that you cherish your good fortune if (and hopefully when) this resolution does come to pass.

Joy,
Lynn