I'm not Terry and I do hold marriage in extremely high regard [UP not withstanding
but those are extenuating circumstances!]
That said, I can understand very well Terry's point about proposing to her without telling her the truth.
*Marrying* her without telling her the truth is an entirely different issue.
More ideally I suppose, they would have dated longer, there would have been lots of I love yous traded and possibly a convo about her feelings/lack of/whatever towards Superman and then told her before he proposed, but I have no problem with him asking first. He'd been trying to tell her before then. It didn't happen. He wasn't going to marry her without telling her. At least I never thought so...
My .02
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Carol
