I think Connie wants Lois to ask a lot of questions and impose her will at the press conference so that even if Superman does show up, the DA won't be able to raise that question.

Either that, or Lois' presence as representative of the Daily Planet wuold discourage the DA from pursuing that.

As for what I enjoyed, I think the recognition that Superman probably has another life is refreshing, especially when the people who think that don't really care to know his other identity.

I think, therefore, I get bananas.

When in doubt, think about time travel conundrums. You'll confuse yourself so you can forget what you were in doubt about.

What's the difference between ignorance, apathy, and ambivalence?
I don't know and I don't care one way or the other.