At some point, kids grow up to be more-or-less on equal ground with other adults.
Think you've hit the nail square on the head there, Pam.
LabRat (yes, it's a 'me too' post - so sue me. )
Athos: If you'd told us what you were doing, we might have been able to plan this properly. Aramis: Yes, sorry. Athos: No, no, by all means, let's keep things suicidal.