This is why I cheated in my first revelation--I intentionally wrote Foreshadowing so that a very early Lois meets a very late Clark/Superman without either one of them realizing that's what's happening. Lois gets to see what life with the Whole Person of Clark can be like *before* she has to deal with the Clark=Superman issue. And, as Bob said, a very early Lois has no reason to be angry at Clark because she has no reasonable expectation that he *should* have told her. For the young Lois in Foreshadowing, the revelation is not so much that CK=S, but rather that Lois can have a very happy married life and still be Lois.
