am happy you all liked my evil-Alice idea...
the angry/deserted spouse is just so believable, for any story...
me thinks I am spending too much time with my extended family... while my aunt is now going through a really messy divorce... but in our case it is the husband who is the lunatic (and I mean Crazy with a capital K-lol)
begging my family's forgiveness... but I have tried soo hard to keep myself anon on these boards that I hope they will never know (and pray)