See, I think George would answer this way:
Dear Desperate;
There's nothing wrong with fantasizing about an unattainable person, as long as you don't lose your grip on reality. Take down those posters of this actor from your bedroom walls and don't get that tattoo of his name across your chest, like I'm sure you've thought of doing. And I'm sure he'd appreciate it if you'd stop sending him your underwear in the mail.
Meanwhile, a little bit of role-playing fantasy can be a healthy change for your sex life. For all you know, perhaps your husband has his own ideas about some actress. You could take turns acting out scenes together...have fun with it!
George
