The thing that always seems to stand out to my DH is the fact that he has someone to look after him. Not that he's incapable of taking care of himself or would expect me to run around after him, but it delights him to no end when I pick up toothpaste when he's out or remind him to take his vitamins. He likes that someone cares enough to be concerned with his well-being.
Children were also important to him and I think when he looked forward to marriage he looked forward to being able to provide for me and our family. He always pictured the nice things he could give us and how happy it would make us. The role of "provider" was a big part of it for him.
Hope that helps! Good luck with your story!
