Well, I'm not the list mom or even the folder mom, so obviously I'm not in charge here.
I did emphasize that I didn't see a problem with Jill's story, or Wendy's; I just wanted to urge caution in future. Didn't mean to sound sanctiminious, if I spelled that correctly.
I should have said that
I find it a happier way to live. Less trodden toes. I did say "assume," though, which means that when you find out otherwise, it's usually okay.
No matter.
Hazel