This is going along great! I agree with:

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I was a little surprised how openly Lois asked about Clark's ideal woman.

So Clark understood that Lois said that her ideal man is Clark - she even began to talk about "you" instead of "him".

But does Lois realize that Clark meant her?
That surprised me also, pleasantly and I was wondering if Lois let it slip accidentally. was it the wine or was she admitting to him that he was her ideal man. I also noticed the change from him to you. Can't wait for more. Laura

Clark: “If we can be born in an instant, and die in an instant, why can’t we fall in love in an instant?”

Caroline's "Stardust"