I actually see all this as more Lois' problem. Lois basically neglected Clark for a year. Clark has been a lunkhead but only recently.

How can Lois expect 1 day of paying attention to Clark to make up for a year of neglect. I am glad to see her pondering what Clark did while she was so preoccupied with work.

Also planning a vacation next week for another person without consulting them seems a little selfish. In a way it sounds romantic but she had to assume Clark had nothing important to do and would be willing to drop everything. No wonder he wonders what is going on.

They are both making assumptions about what the other is thinking and not talking about what they want or need from each other.

Yes Clark is trying to be noble and take the blame but where was Lois during this last year?

Like someone said we all get caught up in work and other things and do not realize what we are doing to loved ones.

However we each own our behavior and its consequences. I am glad Lois is waking up

Kathy
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