Yay for focusing on what they can do together! I definitely know that helps in my own life rather than wallowing in what I can't change. And succeeding in one area gives me strength and confidence to tackle the things I keep struggling with!
Come hang out in the Discord server! Just make a Discord account and click this
https://discord.gg/fv2bAVVUBQ to join. Discord can be a little intimidating, but we keep our server simple and are always happy to help people learn their way around!