Jump right in anytime, Lauren! smile

I voted for being prudent -- what you think is going to make you happy for a while may screw up the rest of your life, and that's a lot of years to trade. Or in my case, you can get spend-happy and then be stuck with the bills for decades. It can be really hard to see that when you're younger, though. And then there is such a thing as being *too* prudent. So... it's a balance, I guess. But it's probably always a good idea to think about what the consequences of a decision might be, so you can decide if it's worth it.

PJ


"You told me you weren't like other men," she said, shaking her head at him when the storm of laughter had passed.
He grinned at her - a goofy, Clark Kent kind of a grin. "I have a gift for understatement."
"You can say that again," she told him.
"I have a...."
"Oh, shut up."

--Stardust, Caroline K