I can't really answer this poll. There just aren't any selections I can choose! I judge guys by a lot of different qualities -- and physical stuff is probably one of the last things I look at!
First of all, he needs to be smart -- very smart. If I talk to him and he has no idea what I am talking about, then he's fired (my high school boyfriend as an example -- I believe he is working at KMart or some fast food place or something)
. Then, he needs to be not clingy. I need to have my space. He needs to not mind at all if I don't call him for weeks at a time. Finally, he needs to be attractive to me -- not exactly fitting any specific critereon of what he needs to look like. It's just if I look at him and find him appealing, possibly even depending on my mood of the day
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So I definitely look at some character traits rather than physical traits. Strangely, I would say that I generally prefer guys who are taller than I am (I am 5'8, so I am fairly tall), athletic and muscular, and the typical hunk. Strangely, every boyfriend I have had has been shorter than me, thinner than me, and not exactly hunky
. Hey, the current guy that I am casually seeing is Chinese, and of course, sorter and thinnner than I am!
- Laura