Lois & Clark Forums Forums General Discussion Off Topic My Mom

As some of you know, my mom had her colon removed on Nov. 30th. Initially, the surgery looked like it was successful, but then she made a turn. At first, they said she had shown all the signs of a pulmonary embolism, but they couldn't actually find the PE. Now they are saying she has an antibiotic resistant yeast infection. And now she is showing signs of bleeding internally. I have no idea what is wrong, and I am so scared. It wasn't supposed to happen like this. She was supposed to have the surgery and then be *better*, not fighting for her life. So, if anyone could possibly keep her in their thoughts, I would be so grateful. Right now, she needs all the help she can get. Those of you that pray, I am sure she would appreciate your prayers as well. While I am not religious, my mom is.

- Laura

Laura, I'm so sorry to hear that. I know that in the last couple of days you've been very hopeful that things were beginning to look better. I'm so sorry that this has happened, and I can understand that you're scared.

Hang in there. You know we're all thinking of you and hoping and praying that your mom will get better. And if you need company, you know where to find us.


Wendy

I hope things start to improve, Laura. I know how hard it is to deal with something like this, especially this close to the holidays.

I'll be keeping you and your mom in my prayers.

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You know we're here for you. While I'm not religious either, I do have your mom in my thoughts.

Sara

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Oh, dear. You know I truly wish that she gets better soon.

I hope we can all bring you some confort, sharing this with you. It isn't easy, but please be sure that we are all hoping for the best.

I do pray and be sure she will be on every one of them. She was before and she will keep there until she is finally better.

Hang on, Laura. You must be strong now. I know your father also needs you at this tough moment. So whenever you feel down, come and share it with us. We are here to make it easier for you if we can.

You´re in my thoughts and prayers too.

Wish you all the best,

MDL.

Thanks for your well wishes, everyone. I just got a phone call from my sister. My mom is going in for another surgery tonight at 11:00 -- so in less than an hour. It seems as though the feeding tube they gave her perforated something in her abdomen -- my sister wasn't exactly clear -- but they are going in for emergency surgery at 11:00.

Please, please, please keep her and my whole family in your thoughts.

- Laura

I'm so sorry to hear how things are going, Laura.

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I'll keep you both in my thoughts.

Julie

At least they've found out what the problem is. I'll be thinking of you and your mom. Do come and let us know how things go whenever you can.


Wendy

We are here, Laura. Hoping for the best.

At least now that they know what they're dealing with they have a better shot at treating your mom successfully. We're thinking of her, Laura.

Nan

I'm praying for you guys, Laura. I know how scary emergency surgeries are. Keep strength and hope in your heart. Together, you and your family can support each other. Let us know how things go...we're here for you.

Best
Jen

Laura! I'm so sorry that you, your mom and your family have to go through all this. I'm not especially religious although I do pray, and know that your mom (and you and your family) will be in my prayers.

Hang in there, don't lose faith! We're all rooting for her and we're all waiting for good news from you.

Mirage

Thank you, everyone, for your support. I can't even express how much it means to me. The surgery went well -- and they found out the reason for a lot of her problems. She had an ulcer in her stomach that was huge, apparently, and it was what perforated. So when that ripped open, it spilled bacteria and other bad things (acid, food stuff, etc) into her body. Now, hopefully, they fixed the perforation, and immediately her vital signs looked good. They are predicting at least a few more days on the ventillator, and quite a while longer in intensive care. I am still worried, but a little more optimistic.

Thanks again for your support. My mom's journey is far from over, but she might be on the upward track now that they know the root of a lot of her problems.

- Laura

Laura, I'm sorry I didn't post sooner - catching up at last. I'm glad your mom is getting better. Keep us updated on her progress, and hang in there. We're all thinking about you.

Kaethel

*hugs* I'm glad they found the problem and that she's doing better. I'll keep her in my thoughts, and I hope she continues to recover well.

Sending hugs, prayers, and healthy thoughts.

Sherry

Yellow Dart,

I'm so sorry I didn't see this sooner. I'm praying hard for you, your family, and your mom, most especially.

Hang in there,

CC

Same here - I'm sorry I didn't see this sooner. My thoughts are with you and I hope everything improves. At least they found the root of the problem.
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Glad to hear that they now seem to be on the ball, Laura, and taking decisive steps to hopefully solve the problem.

I'll be sending best wishes your way that your Christmas is happy and you get the healthy New Year for you and yours that you've been hoping for.

LabRat

Laura,

I really hope that your Mom gets better soon.

I don't know you or anyone on the boards very well and don't post that often but I know that you must be very worried and upset, so I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers over the next few weeks.

Sarah-Jayne