Hey Bob,
I'm sorry you and Bev are having to go through that and I hope all goes well for her at Stanford. I've been watching another of our former coworkers from where you're at go through something similar being treated at UCSF. From watching her, it seems like the best thing you can do is stay positive about everything.
It just adds to a horrible week of news our office has had
But on the bright side, welcome back and I look forward to your muse returning.
