Huh. When I saw L&C's pilot and first few episodes, I identified *strongly* with Clark. If I'd been online that year, I'd have been one of those who thought Lois was nowhere near good enough for him
But after watching SV, I decided I didn't need the angst
and tuned out for another year and a half, until Tempus Fugitive reeled me in.
Even then, it took me another six months to come to fully appreciate Lois's good qualities -- it was the beginning of third season by then, but what really changed my mind (or made me realize it had changed) was writing my fic "Second Chances."
I still find it easier to relate to Clark, tho. Even though I routinely call him a lunkhead in comments folders!
PJ