I voted for a civil service... I'm personally very fond of church services but when it's the only time a person is ever inside a church building, there's not much point to it... a civil service seems more honest, somehow. And probably easier to arrange -- at any rate, it would be different arrangments than in every other fanfic out there
PJ
(aww, thanks, Labby! But even then, we did try for a big church wedding the first time around...)