I can't say anything about 94, since I didn't get online until late 95, but I can tell you they were very much in use by then. I remember having contests in a chat room who could make the longest rotfl acronym. I can't remember using smilies so much, but the smiley did just turn 25, so they were in use somewhere.
EDIT: Oh, wow, check this out.
A newsgroup posting from 1990 that lists acronyms and smilies. There you go!