I don't know if y'all have been aware of the kerfuffle caused by Lori Jareo, but here's an article by Chris Bridges , a friend of mine from another forum, on the subject.

Do you know the most surprising thing about divorce? It doesn't actually kill you, like a bullet to the heart or a head-on car wreck. It should. When someone you've promised to cherish till death do you part says, "I never loved you," it should kill you instantly.

- Under the Tuscan Sun