Clark seems to be demonstrating symptoms related to PTSD—which could be expected from what he has endured. He definitely needs help. Maybe professional care. Martha & Jonathan would probably be his best resource at this point.
At least Clark & Lois were able to express their love for each other. But this is not good! Clark has a lot to work through before he can contribute to a healthy relationship with Lois.
Bakasi, I am going to trust that you have a plan for resolving this dilemma! Doesn’t look like such an easy fix to me. But in your capable hands, I know there must be a happy ending out there somewhere!