Well said, Helga! Inclusion and tolerance
should be what we're all about, and especially at this time of year - at Christmas, for those of us who are, however vaguely, of the Christian faith or tradition.
Like Rivka and Paul, I did think that the options in the poll could have been worded better, James. If I were Jewish or Hindu or Muslim, I would
not feel happy about selecting an option saying that I am 'not into that Jesus crap'; that shows disrespect for your religion in exactly the same way, if not worse, than the in-your-face Christian message of Christmas appears to for some.
Paul said:
When someone wishes me a "Merry Christmas" instead of "Happy Holidays," I just grin and wish them a "Happy Channukah."
See, I'd
far, far rather wish you a Happy Channukah than Happy Holidays! And it has nothing to do with religion, and everything to do with simply
hating the expression 'Happy Holidays'. I always have, ever since I first heard it in an American song. To me, it's meaningless - I'm not going on holiday. This is a time of festival, not a 'vacation'. So I won't say 'happy holidays', and that has nothing to do with not respecting anyone else's religious traditions.
I have a Muslim friend and, when I remember to check when Eid is (which I forgot to do this year

) I send her an Eid e-card when I send other online friends Christmas e-cards.
Incidentally, in the UK and Ireland, some Christmas cards - which look the same as other non-overtly-religious cards, with trees and snow and robins and presents and so on on the front - carry the message 'Season's Greetings'. It's never occurred to me before, but I wonder if that was intended as a more secular alternative?
A belated Happy Channukah, Paul, Rivka, Julie and anyone else of the Jewish faith who is reading this!
Happy Kwanzaa to anyone who celebrates it.
And a very Merry Christmas to those who celebrate it, too.
Wendy
