I appreciate that there are strong feelings on all sides here, and of course everyone is entitled to her or his own opinion. No-one would want to suggest anything else. I'm hoping that we can keep tempers calm here and avoid insulting or offending people!
Julie, at 15 of course we couldn't expect you to know what nfic is all about - I should hope not, in fact. Those responding to you are bearing that in mind.
But you also need to bear that in mind! You haven't read any nfic, so try not to jump to conclusions about what it's like or assume that it has to be something like a narrative representation of something you get in email; that it has to be 'disgusting'.
What those who've replied so far have told you is that nfic stories in
this fandom - we make no claim for anywhere else - portray a loving, romantic, sensual and sexual relationship between two people who love each other. Whether or not they're married at that point in the story, at the end of the story they end up a couple, and faithful to each other. And that is entirely in the spirit of Lois and Clark the series.
The TV series didn't hide from us the fact that, in seasons 3 and 4, Lois and Clark were sexually attracted to each other. They almost made love in Virtually Destroyed and Super Mann. We saw them in bed together many times in season 4, and even on the kitchen floor in Faster than a Speeding Vixen. For those readers who enjoy reading it, for those writers who like writing it, nfic simply fills in some of those scenes and others like them. It's not as if anyone chooses to go off and write something completely out of character for either Clark or Lois.
Edit: I've just seen that you posted while I was still composing this, Julie. Again, without having read any nfic you wouldn't know this, but actually very little of the nfic in this fandom is graphic. We are much more concerned with the emotions involved than in explicit, step-by-step explanations of the actions involved.
Yes, if you go into any bookshop or supermarket and pick up any of the bestselling women's fiction around - authors such as Nora Roberts, Barbara Delinsky, Jude Deveraux and many others - you will find scenes no less explicit than those in nfic stories. And those love-scenes will mostly not be as part of a committed, faithful relationship. Yet does anyone call books like those pornographic? There are love-scenes in many films, usually those rated above PG-13 (in the UK there is a 15 rating, which most of those sort of films would get) - are those considered pornographic? Not at all.
You don't want to read nfic, Julie: that's quite all right. That's your decision and everyone who has responded to you respects it. If, once you're older, you get curious enough to take a look and see what it's really like, and you would then like to discuss it from the perspective of knowledge, then we'd be pleased to hear what you have to say.
Wendy