While I have enjoyed the discussion so far, can I remind everyone that this section is exclusively to discuss the TV-show
Lois & Clark: the New Adventures of Superman and anything related to that and FoLCdom in general?
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Now, when should he have told her? I always thought he should have told her before proposing. So somewhere between WWW and that moment. He had some oppertunities during ATAI, but never took them on. Lois showed great trust in him, and did everything she possibly could to help his parents. In return, he chose not to trust her and tell her all there was to the story. While I find it really adorable that Lois linked them together with his gesture on her cheek, telling her with words would have been far better. Like when they were talking in front of Clark's apartment (I think that was where they were) and he told Lois his parents had been kidnapped. *That* moment would have been perfect. But ah well, we can't have everything.
Saskia