I just reread Chris Mulder's Dimensions of Loving and Love Beyond All Measure, so I'll second those recommendations. I also revisited Yvonne's
Misery , which is a really well done story and fits in the hurt/comfort category.
WHAM stands for Wistful, Heartwrenching, Agonising Moment (you may hear variations thereof, but basically that's it).
Wow, I never realized that actually stood for something! You learn something new every day
Welcome to the boards, Patti!
Kaylle