I know what this story requires. A scene with Lois and Clark tied up so they have to talk to each other. He might not be able to tell her he's Kal, but he could at least explain what happened today, and get Lois to partially understand why he's so fragile.

I think, therefore, I get bananas.

When in doubt, think about time travel conundrums. You'll confuse yourself so you can forget what you were in doubt about.

What's the difference between ignorance, apathy, and ambivalence?
I don't know and I don't care one way or the other.