A fanfilm has been making the rounds and discusses the "intimacy" issue. It was released this year and actually has won a number of fan and international film festival rounds. Basically Lois is in the mood and Clark is nervous. Warning: conversation and strong insinuation of superpowered sexual acts. I considered posting it to N-fic section for that (even though all the action happens behind closed doors.)

Little Man of Steel

CLARK: No. I'm just worried I'm a jinx.
JONATHAN: A jinx?
CLARK: Yeah. Let's face it, ever since she's known me, Lois's been kidnapped, frozen, pushed off buildings, almost stabbed, poisoned, buried alive and who knows what else, and it's all because of me.
-"Contact" (You're not her jinx, you're her blessing.)