I vote for after because, I personally like the fact that in the episode where Lois asks Clark if he could warm her feet with heat vision. She says he missed and he replys no, he did not. How wonderful would that be? I love that. Kinda shallow, I know. But, for me it works.

Btw- I love your name Lolly. My name happens to be
the same !!! smile

But, it is spelled Lollie blush