I totally agree. I don't really like the idea of picturing Superman as the homewrecker of some kid, either. And Lois Lane and Clark Kent are a fated couple --it's like a Greek myth. You just don't mess with that part of the story.
I'll probably see the movie just because it's Superman, and I couldn't stop myself. But if I am disappointed, I WILL NOT buy it on dvd and watch it over and over again, that's for sure. I'm trying to be hopeful, though.
Marcy