I'm actually a relative newbie myself... but the newness wears off quickly.
I'm Rivka, age 29 -- which I believe makes me an ice age relic, but not quite as old as dirt.
Do you know the most surprising thing about divorce? It doesn't actually kill you, like a bullet to the heart or a head-on car wreck. It should. When someone you've promised to cherish till death do you part says, "I never loved you," it should kill you instantly.
