It would be unrealistic to expect a large group of people to get along famously all the time without quarrel or incident. We've had our moments.
However, I think most of us are just out to enjoy and really can't be bothered wasting time on rehashing old arguments. Not enough hours in the day, not enough fun to be had.
Suffice to say, like all fandoms, we've had our problems, but why waste time on history? It's past, it's done, let's get on with hanging out with friends and sharing a good time.
It's always a shame when fans lose out to such quarrels - thankfully we have avoided
that in FoLCdom. Yay us! <g>
LabRat