Ann, I've moved this into here from Off Topic, because although you're discussing the Bible, you seem to be doing so in the context of and in relation to Lois and Clark and how they are portrayed in fanfic. So it seems pretty much on topic for Fanfic Related.
Making no comment on the points you've raised
, except to say...can't we cry for both of them? I know that's what I tend to do and I cannot imagine that I'm the only one who does so when reading deathfic. So I'm not sure why we need to choose who to feel sympathy for. Why it needs to be one or the other.
LabRat